You would date him because of who he is and because you love him, not for any other reason. If you are out on a date with an African Man, he is going to treat you like a real woman and open doors for you, pay for the meal and make sure you get home safely. Let us know what your experiences have been in the comments! Of course, you understand by now that this is a very subjective, yet fun, list. Not only will you have a lot of in-laws to entertain over the holidays and many social functions to attend but your children will get to visit cousins all over the world. After the novelty of the new romance, over pledging and the usual romp is over everyone is left with a bitter taste in their mouths. When you are in an interracial relationship you have to learn, adapt and appreciate a different culture and way of living.
And if things ever do get awkward, a nice smile, a rudimentary grasp of the local language and a sense of humor can go a long way. He Can Cook This is probably the top reason a girl should an African male. Make sure that if you give your opinion, it is one that he would like. Sandra Appiah is the Chief Operating Officer at Face2Face Africa. Stock photos via depositphotos Why You Should Date an African Man The reason why African men are more likeable is that they are conventional. Browse thousands of East African Live In Bangalore gay personal ads - all completely free.
I guess I should have known I was in a real seedy locale when an entourage of women in high heels and short skirts approached me as soon as I sat down at the bar. He Loves To Travel… In Style If you want to date an African man, another good reason to do so would be for the traveling. African men love a woman who can cook. S and Eritreans are concentrated in places like Sweden and Germany. Knowing how to cook some of his traditional meals could be a big plus for you. Avoiding cultural misunderstandings is a factor and probably especially those who live in the diaspora want a partner who can make them feel at home even if they live in a foreign country. This is not to deny the fact that there are East Africans that genuinely fall in love with white men or women of whichever age bracket, and settle with them to start a family either in Africa or in the West.
That he will likely cheat on any woman he dates, not because he does not love them, but that it's a compulsion. I've read the horror stories and have seen some glaring red flags. In the beginning, he told me he is a cheater. Could the bad behavior that Nairobi women so often complain about in Nairobi guys have something to do with how these same women behave? He may go back in a few months permanently. Let me clear some things up now. Then there is this issue of aggression, discourtesy, plain talking, braggadocio etc about Kenyan men. She seems like she wants somebody that will really listen to her and what she has to say.
He has become more open, tender and less guarded. With an incandescent passion matched only by her abundant ambition and prodigious talent, Ms. There are a lot of lies he is just now admitting to. I've read the horror stories and have seen some red flags. Did some of you have similar experiences? But I heard that Ugandans and Tanzanians get along way better than they do with us Kenyans. Ah, Dating in East Africa… I can only give my perspective on dating in Ug: a little bewildering to say the least! Now that things have deepened a bit, he is of his own free will coming clean and being honest-ish. This hardworking Ethiopian woman is looking for the right man.
A white horse, jeez, what will it eat and the jacuzzi in a city that is blighted with water shortage. We all date and we all do it for different reasons. But with an African, never doubt it. Lately I have realised that me not being raised with the culture is obviously a dealbreaker to Rwandan men. Most of the times we have these unrealistic expectations that are derived from the fantasy fueled notions in movies and romance novels. It is a raise socio-economically. In a sense, the ones who make it here are the ones who are willing to make big sacrifices to gain a chance at prosperity.
It may be expensive to hold down a large family but lord knows big families are a lot of fun. In our opinion, they were not gallant or suave enough. Chances are your potential African boo not only has family and friends back in his homeland but also has folks all over the world like Dubai, London, Australia and Germany. So what happened to the house overlooking Lake Victoria that you promised me on the 3rd date…. However, this is not the only reason why many women are interested in African men.
I've been supporting him through tough times. . Due to their peculiar nature and limited exposure to democracy, it is quite tricky to get an African man. Thanks for sharing your experiences! Listed below are reasons why you need to date African men. In my mind, I was like: Based on what? We love you Kenyan women, but please get real and try to empathize with the hapless cornered Kenyan men who try to do what they can to please you yes we do, before we throw you under the bus out of frustration stemming from your interminable demands for fairy tales. They obsess over white men, both young and old. Enter email address to receive updates from Face2face Africa Subscribe.