I just have the fear that if it all fell apart what a mess it would be with his sons and also would this work in the real world? Everyone with just your pleasant grace and mannerism will respect you by the words of choice in front of you and open doors for you, just as getting the chair ready for you to sit on gracefully before you sit down for dinner with them. She had her birthday a while back and when we asked her the age we were all guessing like 21, 22. But he respects me and treats me well, better than my previous 2 byfriends who were 4 and 5 yrs older than me. Besides my ex-husband, I never had a boyfriend. I'm a 19 year old gal, dating a 45 year old man.
He isnt a complete creep he does really sweet things for me. He reminded me just how much living I still had to do, that I was still sexy, and that dating could be fun. Well, wait and see what happens, I guess. He tried to remove it but was unable. Most of the things that work right away are evident by then, as are the things that just feel. There were no hurt feelings, I just couldn't see it going anywhere.
I had no independence or identity i felt in the back ground and not important. He was basically selling himself. We have known each other for 4 years and decided to actually get involved in a serious relationship 2 years ago. I don't want to let go of either relationship but I don't want to keep this a secret forever. The idea of being alone when I am older scares me a little, but then again, people can live long or die young.
Right before I moved to Korea, I was dating a man 16 years older than me and it was fantastic, the best relationship I've ever been in. And partly because it churned up some of the unanswered questions I and some of my friends! Anonymous I am in a so call relationship right now with a 42 year old man and i am 24 it has been very interesting. I am however enjoying each encounter, each time we meet to go out, each time we dance together we belong to the same dance club … Funny thing is that no one of our mutual friends know about it…. We kept in contact almost daily with e-mail and sometimes phone calls. I know his mother personally so I don't worry about meeting the family.
I delayed my cancelation and responded. She was shocked and could not figure out how I found the address and pulled it off. Maybe I should just take a leaf out of your book and just 'go for it'! Quote: Originally posted by jalexy i am 21 and i hate to break the news to you, but of all the guys around my age that i have met, i have never met a single one that would date a 40 year old woman seriously. I love my mom but if I were to fall in love with this man after spending time with him, I would be open to being his. He is kind of an old soul and had no desire to have kids. As such, I find it incredibly ironic that what fuels your preference for younger men is precisely what almost all younger men will hold against you. Well when he got the job he started staying gone until like 3:00 am then 4 then 5.
I never stopped reading your books, and checked up on myself often. My Indian boyfriend is 22 years old and I'm turning 28 years old soon. So, in my opinion, stay within your age range and steer clear of the youngins. I had several friends and coworkers, fathers of teenage daughters, who offered me their unsolicited opinion of my relationship; they would rather for their daughter to date a much older man than her peers. My ex never liked to be seen in public with me as I was much taller my new man does not care though we are a private couple as much as we can be.
Women their own age are expecting them to be the man, the leader of the relationship, the decision maker. I'm still unwilling to take him on trips to see my parents because I'm afraid of them judging him or me. Anonymous Audrey, i'm in a very similar situaton. As far as health and intimacy goes we hit a home run, I have never had it this good. Good news is that you can keep this cut off point for a while, I think.
It was on a one way street up a small hill. Any advice to ladies crushing on someone a bit older than them? Neither of us has ever been married before, and we're both on the same procreation timeline. He respects that I don't know what I want, and helps me more emotionally then any other guy I have known. She took care of him for many years while she was still in her prime before he eventually passed away. The physical aspect is so amazing, it absolutely blows my mind.