This allows for users to learn from their mistakes and not get banned indefinitely for a minor infraction. This is not only thinking about him but for her sake. Why is he not into women his own age? Since she's turned to you to share this information, keep the lines of communication open. She will probably need to be hurt in that way to understand what was going on, telling her no will probably push her away from you assuming a parent asked this question. I'm sure she has had sex before, she told me she hasn't but I'm not so sure about that. So I have known this girl from family friends since I was 12 years old and recently we reconnected and we have gone on several dates.
I can imagine people at those ages who are still at basically the same life stage pretty much high schoolers, or both enrolled in community college classes, etc. I'm sure she's been sneaking around, I love my brother and sister in law but they work so many hours and don't get home till late so I'm sure they think she's just at a friend's house. Don't prohibit or try to talk her out of it, let her find out what she needs to learn herself. I don't understand why an adult would want to hang around a teenager. It is not a substitute for professional legal assistance. Also, my parents are very against this, he is a very good guy however, they don't like the fact that he is over age. It'll suck to tell her, but it may be best for them to wait to date.
The people providing legal help and who respond are volunteers who may not be lawyers, legal professionals or have any legal training or experience. A legal resource for attorneys, business professionals and the average person to find self help with the law. I just want some answers on if he could get in any trouble if my mom would happen to go to the police about this, we have stopped talking because we are both afraid of getting into serious legal issues. I guess she's upset because her boyfriend won't drive her home from school and none of her friends will either so she had to walk home in the cold. Ive seen friends in the past get caught up in this hangup, and it never seems to work out. What do they do on dates; does he try to hide her then? Has she been lying about where she's going? This dude is with her so he can get it in.
My 19 and a half year old son is dating a 15 and a half year old girl. Dating is not illegal as long as you're not doing anything you wouldn't do with your grandmother. Free Legal Help, Legal Forms and Lawyers. We have a right we are family so thanks for no information, I got it anyway from a lawyer, who he may need after all is said and done. Yes, the relationship is normal as long as it is not sexual.
The only problem is I am 20 turning 21 shortly and it feels kinds weird dating a 16 year old. My parents knew it was all platonic, they'd met the guys, so there was no issue. I wish everyone the best, be honest, be direct and most of all, be yourself! I asked her the same question and she said he works from home fixing cars and that he's picked her up before, but he didn't want anyone to see him picking her up. However, I can't stop him from doing as he pleases just hope that he's listened to me. Wouldn't the cat be out of the bag, then? They've been dating for a few months she told me. In those years I didn't mind a girl being younger, fresh and 'moldable' and not to forget oh so sexy.
It's only in the last 70 years or so of civilization where this kind of age spread is considered odd. When you submit a question or make a comment on our site or in our law forum, you clearly imply that you are interested in receiving answers, opinions and responses from other people. This chick I used to date is now dating a 26 year old. There are many many factors to take into consideration but in general I would tend to say no, but yes is probably better so she can find out stuff herself. But I've also allowed my 16yo to date a friend of his who is a year older. My sister does not need a prego 16 year to deal with on her hands either since he may be a father to his last girlfriends baby, who is of age, he has know right bringing a young girl into that either. I have heard this from my whole entire family.
Whether it's wrong depends entirely on the people involved. Let him tell her that since she was dishonest with him about her age, that leaves him with trust issues about her and if he can't fully trust her, the relationship will never go anywhere. I don't think anything is wrong with it, a lot of your mid age couples have large age gaps my parents are 8 years apart and started dating when my mother was 16 and 30+ years later and both their kids are out of college and they are really well established themselves. Older guys go for young girls sometimes a use truth is if you have good morals they arent very many 20 + year old single good girls. Still, it seems that something may be amiss here, if he doesn't want to be seen with her, or whatever his issue is. I guess she's upset because her boyfriend won't drive her home from school and none of her friends will either so she had to walk home in the cold. For purposes of New York and New Jersey State ethics rules, please take notice that this website and its case reviews may constitute attorney advertising.
Besides, you gotta be around the same level as your partner to have a healthy relationship, are you really at the same maturity level as some sophomore in highschool? What makes you think she will be hurt. While this may hurt her, it will, hopefully, teach her a lesson about honesty. Her whole reality consisted of things I had long outgrown and I soon started to be annoyed with her 'childishness' ironically that is something I really like about a woman now, see the difference between being a child and embraceing the child within you. I tried to let it 'fade out' but she wanted to come over more to meet her parents ect. I believe letting an 16 year old girl date an adult is insane regarless if you think they are not playing around more than often they are right under your nose. I had guy friends who were 21, when I was 16. If she was 23 and he was 7 yrs older, no problem.